Free Events at Popular Dating Sites
Whenever I hear that one of the popular dating services is having a free event, I create a post about it and also contact my subscribers with this information. Because these events happen fairly frequently, I’ve created this page to keep track of the history of these events. With this information, you can make an educated guess as to when the next free event might be.
| Dating Site | Start Date | End Date | Year | Link |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| eHarmony | Friday Sept 4th | Sunday Sept 7th | 2009 | Original Post |
| Chemistry | Friday Sept 18th | Sunday Sept 20th | 2009 | Original Post |
| eHarmony | Friday Oct. 9th | Sunday Oct. 11th | 2009 | Original Post |
| Lavalife | Friday Oct. 9th | Sunday Oct. 11th | 2009 | Original Post |
| Chemistry | Friday Oct. 16th | Sunday Octobr 18th | 2009 | Original Post |
| eHarmony | Wednesday Oct. 21 | Sunday Oct. 25th | 2009 | Original Post |
| eHarmony | Friday Nov 19th | Sunday Nov 22nd | 2009 | Original Post |
| Lavalife | Saturday Nov 28th | Monday Nov 30th | 2009 | Original Post |
| Chemistry | Friday Dec. 4th | Sunday Dec. 6th | 2009 | Original Post |
| Lavalife | Saturday Dec. 19th | Sunday Dec. 20th | 2009 | Original Post |
| eHarmony | Wednesday Dec. 30th | Sunday Jan. 3rd | 2009 | Original Post |
| Chemistry | Friday Feb. 5th | Sunday Feb. 7th | 2010 | Original Post |
| eHarmony | Friday Feb. 11th | Sunday Feb. 15th | 2010 | Original Post |
| eHarmony | Thursday March 18th | Sunday March 21st | 2010 | Original Post |
| Chemistry | Friday March 26th | Sunday March 28st | 2010 | Original Post |
| Chemistry | Friday April 30th | Sunday May 2nd | 2010 | Original Post |
| MatchAffinity | Friday April 30th | Sunday May 2nd | 2010 | Original Post |
| eHarmony | Various Days | Various Days | 2010 | Original Post |
| MatchAffinity | Friday June 4th | Sunday June 6th | 2010 | Original Post |
| Chemistry | Friday June 11th | Sunday June 13th | 2010 | Original Post |
| eHarmony | Friday July 2nd | Monday July 5th | 2010 | Original Post |
| eHarmony | Friday July 23rd | Sunday August 1st | 2010 | Original Post |
| Chemistry | Friday August 20th | Sunday August 22nd | 2010 | Original Post |
| MatchAffinity | Friday August 27th | Sunday August 29th | 2010 | Original Post |
| eHarmony | Friday September 3rd | Monday September 6th | 2010 | Original Post |
| Lavalife | Saturday September 4th | Monday September 6th | 2010 | Original Post |
| eHarmony | Friday October 1st | Sunday October 10th | 2010 | Original Post |
| eHarmony (Canada) | Friday October 8th | Monday October 11th | 2010 | Original Post |
| Chemistry.com | Friday October 8th | Sunday October 10th | 2010 | Original Post |
| eHarmony (Canada) | Monday November 1st | Tuesday November 30th | 2010 | Original Post |
| eHarmony (US) | Friday November 5th | Sunday November 14th | 2010 | Original Post |
| Chemistry | Friday November 19th | Sunday November 21st | 2010 | Original Post |
| MatchAffinity | Friday November 19th | Sunday November 21st | 2010 | Original Post |
| eHarmony | Friday December 3rd | Sunday December 12th | 2010 | Original Post |
| eHarmony | Monday December 27th | Sunday January 2nd | 2011 | |
| Chemistry | Friday January 7th | Sunday January 9th | 2011 | |
| eHarmony | Friday January 28th | Monday February 28th | 2011 | |
| Chemistry | Friday February 11th | Sunday February 13th | 2011 | |
| MatchAffinity | Friday March 4th | Sunday March 6th | 2011 | |
| Chemistry | Friday May 13th | Sunday May 15th | 2011 | |
| eHarmony | Friday May 27th | Sunday May 29th | 2011 | |
| Chemistry | Friday June 13th | Sunday June 15th | 2011 | |
| eHarmony | Friday September 2nd | Monday September 5th | 2011 | |
| Chemistry | Friday October 14th | Sunday October 16th | 2011 | |
| eHarmony | Friday December 30th | Monday January 2nd | 2011/2012 | |
| Chemistry | Friday January 13th | Sunday January 15th | 2012 | |
| Chemistry | Friday February 10th | Sunday February 12th | 2012 | |
| eHarmony | Friday February 17th | Monday February 20th | 2012 | |
| eHarmony | Friday March 16th | Monday March 19th | 2012 |
A couple of tips: I would recommend signing up for both Chemistry.com and eHarmony prior to hearing about a free event. This is because both services provide you matches over time and if you sign up for the service the day before the free weekend begins, you may not have many matches. Signing up ahead of time allows your account to gain matches so when the free weekend rolls around, in all likelyhood you’ll have more people to communicate with. For Lavalife (and other services like it), there’s no real reason to sign up ahead of time as you can contact as many people you want.
One other note: if you’ve found your way to this page in a search for a 100% totally free dating service, I would recommend OKCupid. While Plenty of Fish has more members, it is my opinion that it has a lot of bad practices and this service does not provide the opportunities for success that OKCupid does. That’s just my opinion. They’re both free so if you have doubts try them both and see if you agree.
As this chart shows, most months have several different events and on rare occasions some services even have multiple events in the same month. So if you’re broke, my recommendation is to primarily use OKCupid but also be aware that many of the most popular services have frequent reoccurring free events and many times you can make fairly reliable guesses as to when those events will be.
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Brad is a happily married man that found great success (and his wife!) using online dating. He now shares his thoughts and experiences, on this site and in his free online dating guide, to assist others in finding success. 


i want to know if their is any 90 days free eharmony communication. When it come up let me know.
Joe – eHarmony once had a 30 day free event but I’ve never heard of a 90 day one (nor would I expect to, to be honest)