Comments on: Match.com Winks and Women: How to Use and Respond http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/2010/03/05/match-com-winks-and-women-how-to-use-and-respond/ Getting on Track with Online Dating Tue, 07 Feb 2012 02:11:11 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Brad http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/2010/03/05/match-com-winks-and-women-how-to-use-and-respond/comment-page-1/#comment-19167 Brad Fri, 28 Jan 2011 22:40:25 +0000 http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/?p=1862#comment-19167 Does he actually say "wink, wink" in the email? Could be sexual innuendo or it could be innocent but it that's all he is sending, I'd recommend forgetting about him until he writes you a more compelling message. Does he actually say “wink, wink” in the email? Could be sexual innuendo or it could be innocent but it that’s all he is sending, I’d recommend forgetting about him until he writes you a more compelling message.

]]> By: Nancy http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/2010/03/05/match-com-winks-and-women-how-to-use-and-respond/comment-page-1/#comment-19164 Nancy Fri, 28 Jan 2011 19:08:25 +0000 http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/?p=1862#comment-19164 What does it mean when a man says in an e mail "I d like to get to know you better".(wink,wink)? What does it mean when a man says in an e mail “I d like to get to know you better”.(wink,wink)?

]]> By: Brad http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/2010/03/05/match-com-winks-and-women-how-to-use-and-respond/comment-page-1/#comment-18439 Brad Wed, 15 Dec 2010 22:59:35 +0000 http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/?p=1862#comment-18439 Durga, here are my thoughts: 1. You probably are being too selective if out 100 guys there wasn't a single person you would be willing to meet. Just meet them for coffee shouldn't be require the perfect match in my opinion (and you might be surprised by what you find). You might want to be a bit more open to taking chances with those guys. 2. I'm not really sure about the lying about where they live...I'm not sure I understand what you're saying. Did their profile say they wanted to date someone within 30 miles of where they live but they contacted you even though you are farther away? If that's the case, I wouldn't really look at that as lying. 3. I think a desire to talk on the phone or meet quickly is a good thing from the perspective of trying to find a great match (as I discuss in my guide). I can hardly complain about this approach when it was mine! 4. As mentioned in the article above, with the winks I would just wink back and put the ball back in their court. Hope it helps! Durga, here are my thoughts:

1. You probably are being too selective if out 100 guys there wasn’t a single person you would be willing to meet. Just meet them for coffee shouldn’t be require the perfect match in my opinion (and you might be surprised by what you find). You might want to be a bit more open to taking chances with those guys.

2. I’m not really sure about the lying about where they live…I’m not sure I understand what you’re saying. Did their profile say they wanted to date someone within 30 miles of where they live but they contacted you even though you are farther away? If that’s the case, I wouldn’t really look at that as lying.

3. I think a desire to talk on the phone or meet quickly is a good thing from the perspective of trying to find a great match (as I discuss in my guide). I can hardly complain about this approach when it was mine!

4. As mentioned in the article above, with the winks I would just wink back and put the ball back in their court.

Hope it helps!

]]> By: durga http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/2010/03/05/match-com-winks-and-women-how-to-use-and-respond/comment-page-1/#comment-18438 durga Wed, 15 Dec 2010 16:14:34 +0000 http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/?p=1862#comment-18438 I have been on match for about 2plus weeks. I have been viewed about 2,400 times by over 1,000 members. I have received over 100 emails and about 100 winks. I did not find a date from the bunch. So my questions: 1- Is that normal or am I being too selective? (my reasons so far - 1- Religion mainly has been the deal breaker and 2- also some lied about their place of residence They claimed to live in my area while they are in another state or upstate NY. It's not a big deal but I do not like the fact that or someone would like about something that basic and simple 3- some are in a major hurry to start phone chat...etc) 2- what am I to do with all the winks? I have been on match for about 2plus weeks. I have been viewed about 2,400 times by over 1,000 members. I have received over 100 emails and about 100 winks. I did not find a date from the bunch. So my questions:
1- Is that normal or am I being too selective?
(my reasons so far – 1- Religion mainly has been the deal breaker and 2- also some lied about their place of residence They claimed to live in my area while they are in another state or upstate NY. It’s not a big deal but I do not like the fact that or someone would like about something that basic and simple
3- some are in a major hurry to start phone chat…etc)
2- what am I to do with all the winks?

]]> By: Brad http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/2010/03/05/match-com-winks-and-women-how-to-use-and-respond/comment-page-1/#comment-14474 Brad Sun, 07 Mar 2010 17:48:34 +0000 http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/?p=1862#comment-14474 Thanks Moeen - I really appreciate the heads-up on that. I posted the wrong revision! Thanks Moeen – I really appreciate the heads-up on that. I posted the wrong revision!

]]> By: Moeen http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/2010/03/05/match-com-winks-and-women-how-to-use-and-respond/comment-page-1/#comment-14473 Moeen Sun, 07 Mar 2010 12:14:11 +0000 http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/?p=1862#comment-14473 You need to fix the links on this page; just wanted to mention that. You need to fix the links on this page; just wanted to mention that.

]]> By: Brad http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/2010/03/05/match-com-winks-and-women-how-to-use-and-respond/comment-page-1/#comment-14400 Brad Sun, 07 Mar 2010 11:47:09 +0000 http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/?p=1862#comment-14400 Thanks Moeen - I appreciate the heads-up on that. I posted the wrong revision! Thanks Moeen – I appreciate the heads-up on that. I posted the wrong revision!

]]> By: Moeen http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/2010/03/05/match-com-winks-and-women-how-to-use-and-respond/comment-page-1/#comment-14398 Moeen Sun, 07 Mar 2010 05:14:11 +0000 http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/?p=1862#comment-14398 You need to fix the links on this page; just wanted to mention that. You need to fix the links on this page; just wanted to mention that.

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