Moreover, spending your moolah might reap a big “thank you” from your date. But it won’t generate even a smidgen of attraction.

Paying for a woman won’t lessen her attraction toward you. As long as she doesn’t interpret yout generosity as an attempt to get her to like you, you’re fine.

But when you feel that icky sensation on in your gut that squawks, “If I don’t pay, my date won’t like me,” and then shell the cash, she’ll interpret your “kind gesture” as an attempt to get their validation and approval.

How in the world do women pick up on this? Are females endowed with psychic abilities giving them the power to know
what we’re thinking at all times?

Most women aren’t endowed with psychic abilities. They don’t need to.

When a man does something to get a woman’s validation she hears it in his tone of his voice and sees it in his body.

The words “I’m A Validation Hungry Little Puppy Dog” are practically scrawled across his forehead in permanent red ink.

“So what if I’m a validation hungry little puppy dog?” you might argue.

Women, my friend, feel no attraction toward men seeking their validation. Female friends of mine have confirmed this.