Comments on: How Do I Write an Email to a Woman with Nothing Interesting in Her Profile? http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/2009/12/19/how-do-i-write-an-email-to-a-woman-with-nothing-interesting-in-her-profile/ Getting on Track with Online Dating Tue, 07 Feb 2012 02:11:11 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Will http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/2009/12/19/how-do-i-write-an-email-to-a-woman-with-nothing-interesting-in-her-profile/comment-page-1/#comment-27216 Will Mon, 19 Dec 2011 04:54:42 +0000 http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/?p=1227#comment-27216 I had the same thing like you Jon. I was talking with a lady online, then it moved to txting and we both agreed to meet somewhere a few days ago. Well after spending money on txting minutes and on that same day we were suppose to meet she wrote me via txt saying she was sick and in the bathroom sick. After a bunch of yipper yapper back and forth her last message was she will txt me after she get's off of work!!! How can she be at work when she was at home in the bathroom pukin?? Yep she was a goner!! I had the same thing like you Jon. I was talking with a lady online, then it moved to txting and we both agreed to meet somewhere a few days ago. Well after spending money on txting minutes and on that same day we were suppose to meet she wrote me via txt saying she was sick and in the bathroom sick.

After a bunch of yipper yapper back and forth her last message was she will txt me after she get’s off of work!!! How can she be at work when she was at home in the bathroom pukin??

Yep she was a goner!!

]]> By: Brad http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/2009/12/19/how-do-i-write-an-email-to-a-woman-with-nothing-interesting-in-her-profile/comment-page-1/#comment-21569 Brad Wed, 25 May 2011 09:47:38 +0000 http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/?p=1227#comment-21569 I suppose that's true Jlyn: physical attraction is an important part of relationships and if that's the only motivation you want to give guy as a reason to contact you then more power to you. That said, as a guy I feel that profiles that take this approach make it much harder to contact the woman compared to those profiles that have substance. I agree we shouldn't judge a book by its cover but sometimes the cover is all we're being given! I suppose that’s true Jlyn: physical attraction is an important part of relationships and if that’s the only motivation you want to give guy as a reason to contact you then more power to you.

That said, as a guy I feel that profiles that take this approach make it much harder to contact the woman compared to those profiles that have substance. I agree we shouldn’t judge a book by its cover but sometimes the cover is all we’re being given!

]]> By: Jlyn http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/2009/12/19/how-do-i-write-an-email-to-a-woman-with-nothing-interesting-in-her-profile/comment-page-1/#comment-21564 Jlyn Wed, 25 May 2011 05:53:00 +0000 http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/?p=1227#comment-21564 I'm one of the girls who has the photos but very minimal info. This does not mean a girl has no "substance." It simply means she is not comfortable giving every detail about herself online. If the physical attraction is there, and she accepts your invite for a drink, who are you to assume if she is very interesting or brilliant, or not? Don't judge the book by it's cover, as they say. I’m one of the girls who has the photos but very minimal info. This does not mean a girl has no “substance.” It simply means she is not comfortable giving every detail about herself online. If the physical attraction is there, and she accepts your invite for a drink, who are you to assume if she is very interesting or brilliant, or not? Don’t judge the book by it’s cover, as they say.

]]> By: Jon http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/2009/12/19/how-do-i-write-an-email-to-a-woman-with-nothing-interesting-in-her-profile/comment-page-1/#comment-18116 Jon Tue, 23 Nov 2010 23:00:47 +0000 http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/?p=1227#comment-18116 A profile that's missing important details may be a red flag indicating that the person behind it isn't that serious about online dating. I recently contacted a woman on Match with a lovely picture, some interesting (and well-written) tidbits of information, but a sketchy main ad. After emailing her a few times it became apparent that she hadn't met anyone through the site, despite being on there a while - another red flag. It took me a more than a month of emails before it became apparent that she wasn't going to meet me either. Some girls are on these sites because they want to flirt, 'test the waters' or because their friends are doing it too. But they aren't really serious about actually meeting anyone. A profile that obviously has some effort and thought behind it is more likely to indicate a 'genuine' online dater. A profile that’s missing important details may be a red flag indicating that the person behind it isn’t that serious about online dating. I recently contacted a woman on Match with a lovely picture, some interesting (and well-written) tidbits of information, but a sketchy main ad. After emailing her a few times it became apparent that she hadn’t met anyone through the site, despite being on there a while – another red flag. It took me a more than a month of emails before it became apparent that she wasn’t going to meet me either.

Some girls are on these sites because they want to flirt, ‘test the waters’ or because their friends are doing it too. But they aren’t really serious about actually meeting anyone. A profile that obviously has some effort and thought behind it is more likely to indicate a ‘genuine’ online dater.

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