Comments on: Should I Email Again If My First Gets No Response? http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/2009/09/17/should-i-email-again-if-my-first-gets-no-response/ Getting on Track with Online Dating Tue, 07 Feb 2012 02:11:11 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Brad http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/2009/09/17/should-i-email-again-if-my-first-gets-no-response/comment-page-1/#comment-25546 Brad Sat, 08 Oct 2011 11:10:18 +0000 http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/?p=391#comment-25546 Hey Lana - I hear this frequently from women. I also hear a similar situation where a guy winks at a girl and then she winks back but never hears anything from him again. I would say you should feel free to reach out to him again. However there's a chance that this guy sent "hey whats up?" to 100 women - some guys do mass emailing like this and if he did then you might struggle to get his attention if he had a lot of replies. That having been said, I wouldn't try to read too much into guys not responding after they started the email conversation. Whatever the reasons, this seems to happen a lot so I seriously doubt it was your email or your approach. To me it sounds like your response to him was fine. Hey Lana – I hear this frequently from women. I also hear a similar situation where a guy winks at a girl and then she winks back but never hears anything from him again.

I would say you should feel free to reach out to him again. However there’s a chance that this guy sent “hey whats up?” to 100 women – some guys do mass emailing like this and if he did then you might struggle to get his attention if he had a lot of replies.

That having been said, I wouldn’t try to read too much into guys not responding after they started the email conversation. Whatever the reasons, this seems to happen a lot so I seriously doubt it was your email or your approach. To me it sounds like your response to him was fine.

]]> By: Lana http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/2009/09/17/should-i-email-again-if-my-first-gets-no-response/comment-page-1/#comment-25440 Lana Fri, 07 Oct 2011 05:45:12 +0000 http://www.littleredrails.com/blog/?p=391#comment-25440 A guy sent me an email that said "hey whats up??" his profile was cool, we had some things in common so I simply wrote back that I was doing well and that I'm pretty new to the online dating and asked how he was. I even asked my guy friend and he said it was fine. He's been online and hasn't replied, though I suppose it's because I was vague? Opinion? A guy sent me an email that said “hey whats up??” his profile was cool, we had some things in common so I simply wrote back that I was doing well and that I’m pretty new to the online dating and asked how he was. I even asked my guy friend and he said it was fine. He’s been online and hasn’t replied, though I suppose it’s because I was vague? Opinion?

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